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by Melissa1987
Mon Apr 29, 2019 1:01 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Trying to conceive
Replies: 6
Views: 4398

Re: Trying to conceive

Hi Leila No worries, this site really helped me when I was in such a dark place after my ectopic and so I want to support others where I can. I was extremely lucky and fell on our first time of trying after the ectopic. However, the beginning of the pregnancy was a nightmare. My hgc didn’t rise prop...
by Melissa1987
Sat Apr 27, 2019 8:13 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Trying to conceive
Replies: 6
Views: 4398

Re: Trying to conceive

Hi Leila Just wanted to say I know exactly how you are feeling. I had an ectopic pregnancy in May 2017. It was honestly the most terrifying, traumatic thing I have ever experienced and it still impacts on me today. I too felt like I’d never have anymore children (already had a little boy) and convin...
by Melissa1987
Fri Apr 13, 2018 9:34 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: My story and to give hope.
Replies: 5
Views: 4601

Re: My story and to give hope.

Just to update this post.

I had a healthy baby girl on 6th April. I fell pregnant on our first try after my ectopic and right tube removal in May 2017.

Please don’t give up hope, it can and will happen for you xx
by Melissa1987
Tue Jan 23, 2018 4:54 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: My story and to give hope.
Replies: 5
Views: 4601

Re: My story and to give hope.

Thank you all for the good wishes.

I am always happy to chat to anyone, answer questions about the recovery etc if anyone thinks it would be helpful. I know being able to talk to others who understood how I felt, really helped me to come out of the horrible place that I was in.

Best wishes xx
by Melissa1987
Tue Jan 02, 2018 8:04 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: My story and to give hope.
Replies: 5
Views: 4601

My story and to give hope.

Hi everyone, I just wanted to come back on here to tell my story and hopefully give some hope to people who have recently gone through an ectopic pregnancy. I had an ectopic pregnancy back in may 2017. It was a horrific experience and left me with no left tube. I honestly honestly thought I was goin...
by Melissa1987
Tue Nov 21, 2017 2:49 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: PREGNANT AFTER ECTOPIC ?
Replies: 6
Views: 5625

Re: PREGNANT AFTER ECTOPIC ?

Hiya, I had my right tube removed in may this year and I fell pregnant again in August. This was after two cycles and our first time trying again. I'm incredibly lucky. Touch wood all seems to be ok and I'm 18 weeks.

Good luck things will work out in the end x
by Melissa1987
Wed Jun 14, 2017 6:55 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: First period. Please respond.
Replies: 2
Views: 2506

Re: First period. Please respond.

Thank you for replying. Hopefully it will settle down. To be honest I'm just so grateful it's back in such good time and in line with when I thought I ovulated. I don't think I could bare waiting 10 weeks for it!
by Melissa1987
Wed Jun 14, 2017 7:19 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: First period. Please respond.
Replies: 2
Views: 2506

First period. Please respond.

Hiya I started my first period yesterday evening, it started 28 days after the first day of my post op bleed and 14 days after I thought I ovulated so I'm hoping this is a good sign in terms of my cycle going back to bring regular. I guess I will just have to wait and see. I know on this website it ...
by Melissa1987
Wed Jun 07, 2017 5:56 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Just need someone to talk too...
Replies: 12
Views: 11915

Re: Just need someone to talk too...

Oh god, how awful for the midwife to call you! Just what you need! Yes it's so scary. I had my surgery overnight on a Friday. I was due to go on holiday to turkey the next day. On the Thursday I went to my Gp and clearly stated I was concerned it was ectopic due to my symptoms, but she obviously tho...
by Melissa1987
Wed Jun 07, 2017 1:32 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Just need someone to talk too...
Replies: 12
Views: 11915

Re: Just need someone to talk too...

Hiya, I'm so sorry for you feeling so bad. I had my right tube removed almost 4 weeks ago and it is only in the last few days that I've started to feel a bit better. As hard as it is, I have come to realise there is no choice but to try and look at the positives. If you don't, you will spend your li...
by Melissa1987
Tue Jun 06, 2017 4:31 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: After surgery question
Replies: 5
Views: 9314

Re: After surgery question

I started sleeping comfortably on my side at around the 3 week mark. Before that I was exactly the same as you, propped up with about 5 pillows! Anything else really hurt. I haven't attempted exercise yet and don't think I will for a while for fear of hurting myself. It's so traumatic, by far the sc...
by Melissa1987
Tue Jun 06, 2017 1:33 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: After surgery question
Replies: 5
Views: 9314

Re: After surgery question

Hiya Sorry you are feeling so awful. I'm coming up 4 weeks post surgery and just starting to feel better! I had my right tube removed and my incisions are where yours are. On the left, belly button and middle ish by my pant line. I think it must give them a better angle. I have been so very anxious ...
by Melissa1987
Tue Jun 06, 2017 1:28 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: abdominal pain
Replies: 2
Views: 2651

Re: abdominal pain

Hiya I had my right tube removed almost 4 weeks ago. I have felt some strange stabbing type pains on my left side which totally freaked me out, however that is the side of the incision so I think it is due to that. Is yoir incision on your right side? I've been driving myself crazy at every little p...
by Melissa1987
Sun Jun 04, 2017 11:20 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Discomfort 3 weeks after tube removal.
Replies: 1
Views: 3087

Discomfort 3 weeks after tube removal.

I had my right tube removed just over three weeks ago. For the past few days I've been having discomfort when I push to go to the toilet, this is to pass stools or urine. It is also uncomfortable when I laugh. I have also had Intercourse 3 times now, the third time was uncomfortable when the penetra...
by Melissa1987
Mon May 22, 2017 10:11 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Help please.
Replies: 3
Views: 3248

Re: Help please.

Thank you. I'm going to try and get a dr appointment tomorrow as it is still hurting all down my left leg! X
by Melissa1987
Sun May 21, 2017 10:07 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Help please.
Replies: 3
Views: 3248

Help please.

Hiya, I would really appreciate some advice to put my mind at ease. I had my right tube removed just over a week ago. I've had absolutely no pain on my right side, but lots on my left. Even down my left leg and around to my hip. I do have a wound on my left side rather than my right, could this be w...
by Melissa1987
Thu May 18, 2017 11:21 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: I've blocked it out
Replies: 12
Views: 17852

Re: I've blocked it out

Thank you so much for replying. Congratulations, that's brilliant news and is so good to hear a positive story. You will be looked after and offered early scanning this time around. I'm sure everything will be fine! I'm doing ok. A day hadn't gone past yet where I haven't sobbed, but I'm hopeful tha...
by Melissa1987
Thu May 18, 2017 6:07 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: I've blocked it out
Replies: 12
Views: 17852

Re: I've blocked it out

I'm so sorry for both of your losses and hope you start to feel better. I too have recently had surgery for an ectopic on my right tube. I too took the morning after pill, purely as a precaution after an accident with my long term partner. I'm not on any contraception as we were going to try more to...
by Melissa1987
Wed May 17, 2017 5:04 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Don't know how I feel..
Replies: 2
Views: 3033

Re: Don't know how I feel..

Hiya, Firstly to say I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. I completely understand how you feel. I also had my right tube removed on Friday overnight. I was 5 weeks and 3 days and had been thinking something was wrong for around 2 days. The whole thing was a nightmare from start to finish. My ...
by Melissa1987
Tue May 16, 2017 5:56 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: I would really appreciate any advice please.
Replies: 8
Views: 9053

Re: I would really appreciate any advice please.

Thanks Violinda. I'm having a ct scan tomorrow as the hospital still seem to be worried about a clot. I did have another funny turn last night where I was short of breath, feeling faint and having some chest pains. I think it may be a panic attack, but it's good the hospital are being so thorough I'...