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by TieraSS
Thu Oct 24, 2019 10:42 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: 1 year later
Replies: 2
Views: 1737

Re: 1 year later

Thank you. I will call. I may try counseling again. When i was referred by my doctor's office the first time, I loathed it. The therapist spoke over me the entire time. She didn't actually listen to what I had to say about how I was feeling and that's what a lot of people I come in contact with do. ...
by TieraSS
Thu Oct 24, 2019 1:59 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: How old were you when you had your ectopic?
Replies: 31
Views: 14707

Re: How old were you when you had your ectopic?

I was 26.
No risk factors.
by TieraSS
Wed Oct 02, 2019 2:48 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: 1 year later
Replies: 2
Views: 1737

1 year later

I guess I just need some room to vent. A space to get my feelings involved without feeling judged. Without feeling like I should be over or past this from my boyfriend, friends, and family. Because I'm not and it's not fair that I feel labeled due to the fact that the people that claim to love me do...
by TieraSS
Sat Jun 15, 2019 3:12 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Emotionally Recovering from Ectopic Vs. Miscarriage
Replies: 4
Views: 3139

Re: Emotionally Recovering from Ectopic Vs. Miscarriage

I understand exactly how you feel and I'm actually glad you posted this. My first pregnancy was ectopic and I feel the same frustration and anger you feel when it comes to comparing ectopic vs miscarriage. I'm a logical person too and I would have honestly felt better having a miscarriage because ma...
by TieraSS
Sat Mar 30, 2019 3:52 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Dealing with emotions after ectopic pregnancy
Replies: 6
Views: 3761

Re: Dealing with emotions after ectopic pregnancy

You're definitely not alone. I had emergency surgery for an ectopic pregnancy in September and also had my right fallopian tube removed. I was rational the first couple days following the surgery but my emotions spiraled out of control shortly after. I have breakdowns periodically and the closer I g...
by TieraSS
Sun Mar 24, 2019 8:09 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: I want a baby, my boyfriend doesn't seem interested
Replies: 3
Views: 2103

Re: I want a baby, my boyfriend doesn't seem interested

Thank you. I feel as though I'd be forced to make the decision of ending our relationship BUT I really don't want to. He treats me so well. I'm hoping in time he will come around. So, we shall see.
by TieraSS
Sun Mar 24, 2019 2:50 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: I want a baby, my boyfriend doesn't seem interested
Replies: 3
Views: 2103

I want a baby, my boyfriend doesn't seem interested

I need some help. Maybe the fellas can help me understand. Last August I found out I was pregnant and in September I was having emergency surgery for a ruptured ectopic pregnancy (It was my first pregnancy). I'm still coping with the loss and about 3 or 4 months ago, started telling my boyfriend my ...
by TieraSS
Fri Oct 26, 2018 1:55 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Dealing with Cornual Ectopic Pregnancy
Replies: 7
Views: 4869

Re: Dealing with Cornual Ectopic Pregnancy

Please don't feel responsible for anything that happened. Being in the tube, the baby had no blood nor nutrient supply to be able to continue to be healthy and strong. I wish I could tell you things to help you feel better. However, I'm only just shy of 5 weeks post op. Some days are still a struggl...
by TieraSS
Tue Oct 23, 2018 3:37 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Ectopic pregnancy and first period
Replies: 2
Views: 1546

Re: Ectopic pregnancy and first period

The first bleed was post partum bleeding. It's your body's way of returning to "normal". Sorry for your loss love. I, too, found I was pregnant in September and experienced and ectopic pregnancy. I was a day short of being 8 weeks along when it ruptured. I'm 4 weeks post surgery and still ...
by TieraSS
Fri Oct 19, 2018 3:57 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: 2 weeks since surgery. So emotional
Replies: 4
Views: 2406

Re: 2 weeks since surgery. So emotional

Hey there. I had emergency surgery on Sept 24th. They took my right fallopian tube in the process. I returned to work on Monday (3 weeks later). However, my discharge paperwork said I can't lift over 15 lbs for 4 weeks. It is hard when people want to run up to you, hug you, or talk about it. I can e...
by TieraSS
Thu Oct 18, 2018 11:33 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Devastation and Emotional
Replies: 2
Views: 1664

Re: Devastation and Emotional

Thank you. I will review the men's space board. However, when I've tried talking to him, I'm ignored. Any conversation I male about the pregnancy, surgery, or any future pregnancies, I'm ignored as of I never said anything at all. It's frustrating because the main person I want and need support from...
by TieraSS
Wed Oct 17, 2018 2:49 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Petrified, guilty, upset. Looking for any advice xx
Replies: 6
Views: 3649

Re: Petrified, guilty, upset. Looking for any advice xx

That doesn't seem ridiculous at all. I'm going through the same. Hugs!!!
by TieraSS
Wed Oct 17, 2018 2:46 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Devastation and Emotional
Replies: 2
Views: 1664

Devastation and Emotional

It's been 3 weeks since I've had emergency surgery. My emotions are all over the place and I feel as if my boyfriend doesn't care about me at all. I feel no attachment to him. Part of me doesn't want to continue the relationship. Help.