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by Spainectopic
Tue May 21, 2019 2:22 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Don’t know how much more I can take
Replies: 3
Views: 2555

Re: Don’t know how much more I can take

Sorry to hear your story. Life is unfair isn’t it? Sending you love and hope you can stay strong through it all xx
by Spainectopic
Tue May 21, 2019 2:12 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Which side
Replies: 1
Views: 1371

Re: Which side

It’s your right. Surgeons always talk in terms of the patients right and left. Not a stupid question
by Spainectopic
Tue May 21, 2019 2:10 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Very little bleeding; is this normal?
Replies: 5
Views: 3224

Re: Very little bleeding; is this normal?

Hello ladies, Thank you all for sharing your experiences. It’s a bad situation but good to feel like I’m not alone. Please keep posting and let me know what happens to you and how you feel. I’m feeling better and doing a lot of walking as I’m not allowed to hit the gym yet. Keeping busy looking for ...
by Spainectopic
Thu May 16, 2019 7:57 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Very little bleeding; is this normal?
Replies: 5
Views: 3224

Re: Very little bleeding; is this normal?

Hi Kate, It’s nice to hear from someone who’s experienced something similar. Physically I’m a bit better. Less tired and less pain. But one of my incisions looks a bit weird and still hurts when I move. Mentally some days I’m fine, some I cry. Sometimes I’m impatient to get on with life. Sometimes I...
by Spainectopic
Thu May 16, 2019 7:46 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: I know this is nothing new
Replies: 5
Views: 3297

Re: I know this is nothing new

Hey kelst82,
Sorry for all that’s happened. I can totally sympathise. It’s so unfair. We had 5 rounds ivf and only the one pregnancy. Then the ectopic. Now minus a tube and less chance than ever.
Totally get your anger but l just feel defeated. It is so unfair x
by Spainectopic
Tue May 14, 2019 11:38 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Very little bleeding; is this normal?
Replies: 5
Views: 3224

Very little bleeding; is this normal?

I had the normal post surgery slight bleeding, then nothing, then very light bleeding for a few days. Now nothing again. I know it’s not a normal period after an ectopic is removed but this has been hardly anything and I’m 8 days post surgery. Anyone else had this experience?
by Spainectopic
Tue May 14, 2019 11:25 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: How does it happen?
Replies: 17
Views: 9826

Re: How does it happen?

Sorry to hear the things you’ve been through ladies. Hope you recover soon x
by Spainectopic
Mon May 13, 2019 9:32 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Emotional exhaustion
Replies: 2
Views: 1994

Emotional exhaustion

Anyone else feel like they haven’t any more tears left? I just feel numb and dead inside. Not sad just sort of glum. I feel like the most likely thing is that I’ll never get pregnant again. But if I do it will probably be ectopic again and put my life in danger again. And that doctors won’t think it...
by Spainectopic
Mon May 13, 2019 9:16 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Swollen stomach and pain
Replies: 7
Views: 4314

Re: Swollen stomach and pain

Hi. I only had surgery to remove a tube a week ago. But I’m also surprised at how tired I feel. I’ve been at home doing nothing but still slept 10 hours last night. Not like me at all. I wondered if it could be to do with the blood loss, but they said there was only 400ml when they operated. I don’t...
by Spainectopic
Mon May 13, 2019 9:09 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: How does it happen?
Replies: 17
Views: 9826

Re: How does it happen?

This is interesting. I’ve had one tube removed and been reading that despite this some of the eggs can be attracted by the other tube. But how does this happen? Does the egg float around the outside of the womb and then go down the tube that’s still ok? And when the surgeon removes the tube do they ...
by Spainectopic
Sat May 11, 2019 9:53 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Post surgery swollen belly
Replies: 7
Views: 4080

Re: Post surgery swollen belly

Thanks Stephanie. This forum is useful because although I have a great support, unless you have experienced these things I don’t think you get it! I’m starting to hurt a little less now, and sleeping a bit better. I can’t really have much longer than 2 weeks off because I’m self employed so not earn...
by Spainectopic
Fri May 10, 2019 11:56 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Post surgery swollen belly
Replies: 7
Views: 4080

Re: Post surgery swollen belly

Thanks for answering. It’s good to know there’s someone there. And that other people have experienced this. It’s like a loss, but doesn’t seem real as I never allowed myself to enjoy being pregnant and it’s hard to get my head around. Plus I’m taking time off work but there are still things that nee...
by Spainectopic
Fri May 10, 2019 9:26 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Post surgery swollen belly
Replies: 7
Views: 4080

Post surgery swollen belly

I had laproscopic surgery 4 days ago to treat ectopic pregnancy and ruptured tube. I had the tube removed. I had a swollen belly before probably due to the internal bleeding and after due to the surgery, but it’s hardly reducing at all. How long does it take to go? I can’t fit into any normal clothe...
by Spainectopic
Thu May 09, 2019 9:13 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Twinges on opposite side to EP after surgery
Replies: 15
Views: 10285

Re: Twinges on opposite side to EP after surgery

Before I had emergency surgery to remove my left tube and ectopic foetus I had pain on the centre and right. Now post surgery I’ve goot pain and bruising on the right. Why does this happen it’s weird.