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by nicolestubbs
Sun Aug 28, 2022 7:08 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Wanting to try again
Replies: 1
Views: 1161

Wanting to try again

So 3 years I lost my left tube, still not over the heartache of this and I don’t think Iv ever processed or grieved through everything, but now thinking of trying again, the only problems I have is my weight (this according to drs played an impact on my treatment) and the fact I could go through exa...
by nicolestubbs
Fri Sep 11, 2020 9:13 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Advice needed please
Replies: 1
Views: 1010

Advice needed please

Hi everyone, Its been a year now since my ectopic and losing my left tube. I thought I was coping okay and thought I'd dealt with the emotions but lately i have been asking myself some questions and I'm not sure where to go or what to do. After the ectopic and still now I have told myself I don't wa...
by nicolestubbs
Fri Dec 27, 2019 1:22 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: 6 months later... body still playing catch up
Replies: 1
Views: 1114

6 months later... body still playing catch up

Hi, I’m 6 months down the line of losing my left tube and I have been iron tablets since then, it seems to be that when the course has stopped my iron drops. (Put on iron as had blood transfusion and lost 2litres of blood) but I’m now also on folic acid. I’m wondering if anyone else has had this exp...
by nicolestubbs
Mon Oct 07, 2019 9:09 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Some advice
Replies: 2
Views: 1632

Re: Some advice

Hi Karen, Thank you so much for your reply at the moment I’m just avoiding my little sister and any topic around her news, I will talk to my HR team at work and see what they can do, I think when I’m ready I will be in contact with the trust so that I can talk through everything and just be able to ...
by nicolestubbs
Mon Oct 07, 2019 5:04 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Some advice
Replies: 2
Views: 1632

Some advice

Hi, I’m 13 weeks pre op and am in quite a physical job, after a long time of being on the go and strenuous work I’m finding I’m having pain where they’ve taken my tube? Is this normal? Also I’m getting quite bad cramps which has never happened before and just wondering if this again is normal? Iv al...
by nicolestubbs
Mon Oct 07, 2019 5:00 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Eptopic surgery to remove tube, clothes after
Replies: 5
Views: 3347

Re: Eptopic surgery to remove tube, clothes after

Hi,

I found that I couldn’t even put trousers on for weeks so I would wear dresses or nighties something that wasn’t around my stomach and bruising I know the weather is rubbish now but I found that most comfortable is loose fitting clothes.

Hope this helps x
by nicolestubbs
Thu Aug 08, 2019 6:40 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Pain where tube has been taken
Replies: 5
Views: 3293

Re: Pain where tube has been taken

Hi Ellie,

Ah that would make sense! I’m just so worried about the other one rupturing with any pain that I get in my stomach! But thank you for the reassurance :) x
by nicolestubbs
Wed Aug 07, 2019 6:16 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Pain where tube has been taken
Replies: 5
Views: 3293

Re: Pain where tube has been taken

Thank you both for your replies, Iv already gone back to work and do full time hours but it’s a lot of sitting so if I sit for too long I ache and get the pain, I will definitely take the advice and rest more as I don’t think I’m doing this enough.
by nicolestubbs
Tue Aug 06, 2019 9:59 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Pain where tube has been taken
Replies: 5
Views: 3293

Pain where tube has been taken

Hi,

I’m 4 weeks into recovering from having my left tube removed I’m just wondering if anybody has had pain where they’ve had the tube removed does it take longer to heal on the inside?

Thank you x
by nicolestubbs
Tue Aug 06, 2019 9:53 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Injection
Replies: 7
Views: 4558

Re: Injection

Hi,

Yes I did, the hospital had said cause of the HCG level I would need something to bring them down and the methotrexate would help.

Hope this helps x
by nicolestubbs
Fri Jul 19, 2019 12:41 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Feeling of guilt
Replies: 6
Views: 3365

Re: Feeling of guilt

I think like you Iv got to physically and mentally get over everything that has happened live life a little and then think again about trying!

Thank you for your words hope things goes well for you x
by nicolestubbs
Thu Jul 18, 2019 10:16 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Feeling of guilt
Replies: 6
Views: 3365

Re: Feeling of guilt

Hello Thank you for your message :), I ended up speaking with my partner and he very much comforted me and told me I was being silly and just said that he wasn’t going to leave me which made me feel better! But at the moment I’m very much no children but that could all change in the future with a bi...
by nicolestubbs
Thu Jul 18, 2019 3:12 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Feeling of guilt
Replies: 6
Views: 3365

Re: Feeling of guilt

I’m so sorry to hear about your other tube not looking healthy! It’s horrible to have these feelings I’m just not sure how to get over them :(
by nicolestubbs
Wed Jul 17, 2019 11:53 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Feeling of guilt
Replies: 6
Views: 3365

Feeling of guilt

Hi, Has anyone felt guilty about having their ectopic? Over the last few days iv been feeling guilt and am on the verge of wanting to end things with my partner based on how I'm feeling and what has happened and I'm questioning myself things such as Why would someone stay with me after going through...
by nicolestubbs
Sun Jul 14, 2019 1:45 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: What can I do after ectopic surgery?
Replies: 2
Views: 2289

Re: What can I do after ectopic surgery?

Hi, I was thinking about going into a swim pool and the sea abroad (different from a spa I know) and I’m a week out from surgery and was advised by a pharmacist to not go into either as they still both carry germs, it may be worth the ask from a pharmacist to see what they say. Like I said pool and ...
by nicolestubbs
Thu Jul 11, 2019 9:53 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: LISTEN TO YOUR BODY
Replies: 1
Views: 1994

LISTEN TO YOUR BODY

Hi all, So I found out i was pregnant 11.6.19, from the off I had lower left side pains that would be quite sharp, at the time I didn't want to go through with the pregnancy (no judgement please, isn't the right time in my life).. anyway i attended the 'clinic' and had a scan where they found fluid ...
by nicolestubbs
Thu Jul 04, 2019 8:51 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: No bleeding
Replies: 11
Views: 6703

Re: No bleeding

Hi,

Thank you! Yea got scanned today and seemed to be that the methotrexate has worked as there isn’t a sac but they didn’t say anything about why I’m getting the pain just to carry on taking the pain meds Iv got
by nicolestubbs
Wed Jul 03, 2019 9:42 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: No bleeding
Replies: 11
Views: 6703

Re: No bleeding

Hi, So after receiving a rather rude phone call from the EPU nurse they have booked me in for tomorrow for a scan just advised that if my pain continues to call back in which stressed me out as I feel they aren’t doing their jobs! I’m just wondering if there’s any other avenue I can explore?! If the...
by nicolestubbs
Tue Jul 02, 2019 10:56 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: No bleeding
Replies: 11
Views: 6703

Re: No bleeding

Hi, So Iv literally called the hospital this evening and my mum explained how much pain I was in and that I’m doubled over to be told there too busy and I’d be waiting for hours to see anybody! I’m literally at the point when even walking is unbearable and got told to either wait hours on end or tak...
by nicolestubbs
Thu Jun 27, 2019 1:20 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: No bleeding
Replies: 11
Views: 6703

Re: No bleeding

Hi Thanks for the replies, so since posting this I have been back to have the hcg tested aswell as being admitted! I’m still having no bleeding (which apparently is not a problem) :/ But I had another internal scan and there’s a mass of 15x13mm?? But they don’t seem concerned?! My hcg levels are dec...