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by Kayjayleo
Sat Jun 06, 2020 1:58 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Cant face trying again after eptopic
Replies: 3
Views: 347

Re: Cant face trying again after eptopic

I so Sorry for your experience ... I had an ectopic pregnancy in my right tube hadn’t had to have the tube removed ... I then fell pregnant again as. This time it was stuck in my left so I needed surgery to the tube but they left the tube in x I am now 13wks preggo in the right place! So there is ho...
by Kayjayleo
Fri May 01, 2020 7:59 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Nobody listened. I lost my left tube.
Replies: 2
Views: 509

Re: Nobody listened. I lost my left tube.

I understand how you feel, I’ve been there twice with ectopics and no one seemed to understand how hard it was to adjust. It’s almost too cruel. Only thing I can say is that time heals you, it’s been 9mnths since my last ectopic and I still can’t talk about it without crying x sending you love
by Kayjayleo
Thu Apr 30, 2020 7:20 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Coronavirus and ectopic pregnancy
Replies: 22
Views: 2443

Re: Coronavirus and ectopic pregnancy

I have had two ectopics and found out I was pregnant 4weeks ago.., they gave me a early scan (internal) literally two days after my positive test x
by Kayjayleo
Thu Apr 30, 2020 7:10 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Really struggling post ectopic
Replies: 2
Views: 480

Re: Really struggling post ectopic

Hey, I had my second ectopic and my best friend was 8momths pregnant at the time x it was really difficult to manage my feelings especially as I had lost my fertility also. We have been friends for 30yrs ... she even felt awkward aswell but we spoke openly about it. The day she gave birth I was in t...
by Kayjayleo
Mon Apr 13, 2020 11:51 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: 2nd ectopic pregnancy looking for some hope
Replies: 3
Views: 595

Re: 2nd ectopic pregnancy looking for some hope

This happened to me, lost my right tube and actauly had surgery on my left to remove baby .. and I’ve just found out I’m pregnant and it’s made it way to the womb this time ... how it navigated my scarred tube I have no idea... the human body always finds a way is what I remember my mum telling me x...
by Kayjayleo
Mon Apr 13, 2020 11:39 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: HOPE 2 ECTOPICS - ONE REMOVED TUBE - 1 SCCARED
Replies: 5
Views: 616

Re: HOPE 2 ECTOPICS - ONE REMOVED TUBE - 1 SCCARED

It’s been 9mnths since my second ectopic, I had come to terms with not being able to have another child, I mean with one scarred tube that’s already had an ectopic what was the hope I figured. I asked my doctor to run for through my tube but my surgeon said there was no point in doing this because i...
by Kayjayleo
Fri Apr 10, 2020 5:42 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Ivf FET ectopic
Replies: 2
Views: 353

Re: Ivf FET ectopic

I felt your pain reading this , I had the same scan and it was my second ectopic x laying on the table praying to god it was in my womb and it was stuck there in my tube x
by Kayjayleo
Fri Apr 10, 2020 4:28 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: HOPE 2 ECTOPICS - ONE REMOVED TUBE - 1 SCCARED
Replies: 5
Views: 616

HOPE 2 ECTOPICS - ONE REMOVED TUBE - 1 SCCARED

:D hi everyone I just wanted to come on because this forum saved me 9mnths ago... when I was looking for hope! I have had one ectopic in my right tube and that tube removed. My second was in my left tube and this time the pregnancy removed but tube stitched and scarred. I was told by 5 consultants i...
by Kayjayleo
Sat Sep 07, 2019 10:03 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Newbie...
Replies: 2
Views: 582

Re: Newbie...

Reading this was like reading my own words x your are not alone , I completely understand how you feel about the hospital I wasn’t treated with much empathy either and it would hbe been nice to just have someone who seemed to care. I’ve also just gone back to work so I’m painting a smile on aswell, ...
by Kayjayleo
Fri Sep 06, 2019 1:09 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: 6 week check up - am I brave enough to do it again?
Replies: 3
Views: 893

Re: 6 week check up - am I brave enough to do it again?

Thank you for your reply Michelle , did you have both in same tube ? If you don’t mind me asking? So I had 2 Normal pregnancy’s , then one ep in right tube and tube removed and now one in left tube, tube saved .,.
Just scary to try naturally as don’t think I could go through it all again
by Kayjayleo
Thu Sep 05, 2019 3:06 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Hasn’t hit me yet
Replies: 1
Views: 522

Re: Hasn’t hit me yet

Oh Hun I’m so sorry :( I’m going through similar but managed to save my left tube, my only tube now and god knows of it even works ! So only option is IVF, top it off my mate had her baby today! This is such a hard time for you and I do think your gonna be in shock for a few weeks at least x about t...
by Kayjayleo
Wed Sep 04, 2019 4:02 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Aftermath
Replies: 2
Views: 636

Re: Aftermath

Sending love to you both x
My partner was struggling with what to do with me as I was up and down and he just wanted to fix it x I found the times he said nothing , just “I love you” were the most soothing words x
by Kayjayleo
Tue Sep 03, 2019 7:55 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Braving second attempt?
Replies: 6
Views: 1274

Re: Braving second attempt?

I am going through exact same thing! First ectopic I lost my right tube, this time it was my left, right near ovary in the same place as first. I saw my consultant today and she said she wouldn’t advise against it naturally as such, just that my chances were high and if I went Ivf I wouldn’t be so a...
by Kayjayleo
Tue Sep 03, 2019 7:50 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: 6 week check up - am I brave enough to do it again?
Replies: 3
Views: 893

6 week check up - am I brave enough to do it again?

So today I had my 6 week check up with the consultant. This was my second ectopic, 1st I had my right tube removed and this time they managed to save my left tube but still had surgery to remove baby. She showed me the pictures and it was a shock to see how small my tube is and how large the baby ha...
by Kayjayleo
Fri Aug 16, 2019 4:58 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: When will my periods arrive?’
Replies: 1
Views: 596

When will my periods arrive?’

Hey all
I’m pretty sure I ovulated 10 days after my ep surgery.., which would make my periods die today but nothing?!? Anyone else ovulate this early after surgery? Or advice on when periods should arrive ?
Many thanks
by Kayjayleo
Sat Aug 10, 2019 10:16 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Bleeding after ruptured ectopic surgery
Replies: 2
Views: 660

Re: Bleeding after ruptured ectopic surgery

Hey Hun sorry to hear about your loss, o has my ectopic on 16th July , I stopped bleeding after two weeks it tailed off like a period,
Ayde speak to your gp to check ?
by Kayjayleo
Sat Aug 10, 2019 11:48 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Struggling With Partner
Replies: 17
Views: 2196

Re: Struggling With Partner

Me and my partner were okay at the beginning but it’s week 4now. And we just argue all the time also the only way we can conceive again is IVF and with our relationshipThe way it is there is no way we could commit to that I just feel that because I’m the one with the fertility problemHe should maybe...
by Kayjayleo
Wed Aug 07, 2019 9:56 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Not coping
Replies: 1
Views: 579

Not coping

This is week 3.... I’ve beem up and down and today was a really down day. My good friend is pregnant and due in three weeks, she came over today and I knew it was gonna be hard but I under estimated how hard. I’ve also now developed a pinched nerve in my arm which is giving me so much pain, doc thin...
by Kayjayleo
Sun Aug 04, 2019 10:17 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Struggling With Partner
Replies: 17
Views: 2196

Re: Struggling With Partner

B67 b67
I hope your daughter feels more like herself soon, my mum cried at the hospital when we found out x she is coming over here tomorrow to help clean x all you can do is just be there nothing can fix us only love and time x
by Kayjayleo
Sun Aug 04, 2019 10:15 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Struggling With Partner
Replies: 17
Views: 2196

Re: Struggling With Partner

I cry every day, zone out numerous times a day and didn’t wash my hair for like a week! I have felt that anger towards him, like he didn’t have the op, he don’t have the scars’ he can go get someone else pregnant ! (Yes I even said this to him in rage) I think it’s all normal part of grieving, your ...