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by Han4
Sun Nov 27, 2022 10:30 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Ruptured Ectopic
Replies: 2
Views: 1197

Re: Ruptured Ectopic

Hello, I'm so sorry to hear of your awful experience. I also had a ruptured ectopic with tube removal. That was over a year ago, and although my body healed fairly quickly I am just getting back to normal emotionally. Time is your friend now, emotions will ebb and flow from day to day, sadness, pain...
by Han4
Mon Oct 18, 2021 6:27 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Finding it hard today
Replies: 2
Views: 1028

Re: Finding it hard today

Hello, So sorry for your loss, I am 5 weeks post op for burst ectopic pregnancy and left tube removal. I had such a difficult time accepting what has happened and only now am I starting to actually think about it, the mind definitely blocks it out I think so we are able to deal with and get through ...
by Han4
Tue Oct 12, 2021 4:32 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: How do you deal with this all
Replies: 2
Views: 992

Re: How do you deal with this all

Hello, So sorry to hear of all you've been through. It seems like "Covid" has been as excuse to treat some of us ectopic ladies with a little less care. I'm 4 weeks post op, burst ectopic and left tube removal. I would go forwards with your complaints. I also wasn't allowed my partner in t...
by Han4
Tue Oct 12, 2021 4:17 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Struggling back at work
Replies: 5
Views: 3660

Re: Struggling back at work

Hello, So sorry for your loss, I am 4 weeks post op, burst ectopic and left tube removal. I don't think that 2.5 weeks is anywhere near enough time for you and I imagine that you will go back to work and then have to take more time off. Myself at that stage I was still in shock and my emotions have ...
by Han4
Wed Sep 29, 2021 1:49 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Feeling numb, can't acknowledge what's happened to me...
Replies: 3
Views: 3126

Re: Feeling numb, can't acknowledge what's happened to me...

Meggers 44 thank you for your reply. I'm already starting to become more emotional since I made my post, so I know that its starting to happen that I can open up after the trauma of the whole incident. I see now that it's just going to be a slow process and could take many years to heal emotionally,...
by Han4
Wed Sep 29, 2021 1:39 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Struggling when asked how I am.
Replies: 3
Views: 1235

Re: Struggling when asked how I am.

Hello, I'm in pretty much the same situation, just now over 2 weeks post op, and at home recovering and resting. I'm at the stage when people ask how I am - I'm struggling not to cry or become overwhelmed with the emotion of it. I think it's best to be true to ourselves when answering how we are. We...
by Han4
Thu Sep 23, 2021 5:19 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Feel like a hypocrite
Replies: 2
Views: 1049

Re: Feel like a hypocrite

Hello lovely, You have every right to be upset regardless of whether the pregnancy was wanted or not. You have just been though a traumatic, emotional, painful and dangerous medical experience, allow yourself to feel all the emotions, its your body, your head, your heart. You don't have to justify t...
by Han4
Thu Sep 23, 2021 2:08 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Feeling numb, can't acknowledge what's happened to me...
Replies: 3
Views: 3126

Feeling numb, can't acknowledge what's happened to me...

Hello, My story begins...My partner and I had been trying for a baby for one year, and after deciding to relax up a little on all the OPK testing, BBT recordings and generally obsessing, we were super surprised to find out I was pregnant. Cue jubilation all round. At 5 weeks gone, I started to get a...