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by lolly2481
Mon Dec 28, 2020 7:36 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Any help or advice appreciated x
Replies: 21
Views: 7744

Re: Any help or advice appreciated x

Hi Kelly, hope you are doing ok. I'm sorry that your blood results weren't better news. I hope everything went as well as it can today. Rest up, take care of yourself. Remember we are here for you. Sending love x
by lolly2481
Mon Dec 28, 2020 7:28 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Expectant management over Christmas
Replies: 24
Views: 9017

Re: Expectant management over Christmas

I don't know about you, but for me, it was the moment that I stopped bleeding that it became "real" - I wasn't pregnant anymore and even though I already knew my baby couldn't survive, I think a small part of me still had hope that there would be some sort of miracle. I knew the day befor...
by lolly2481
Mon Dec 28, 2020 2:38 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Expectant management over Christmas
Replies: 24
Views: 9017

Re: Expectant management over Christmas

Had a phone call from the hospital today with results from bloods taken yesterday. hCG dropped to 28. They have said that they don't need to see me now unless I have an increase or change in symptoms but I need to take a pregnancy test in 3 weeks to check it's negative and they will check in with me...
by lolly2481
Mon Dec 28, 2020 12:12 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Expectant management over Christmas
Replies: 24
Views: 9017

Re: Expectant management over Christmas

I think that a lot of people think 'oh, you can just try again' without thinking about the emotional aspect. There are not many people who knew i was pregnant so there aren't many people know what's happened so at least I won't have to negotiate many of these 'helpful' comments. But then..I don't ha...
by lolly2481
Sun Dec 27, 2020 3:55 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Any help or advice appreciated x
Replies: 21
Views: 7744

Re: Any help or advice appreciated x

Hello Kelly, hope you are doing ok. Sending love x
by lolly2481
Sun Dec 27, 2020 3:51 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Expectant management over Christmas
Replies: 24
Views: 9017

Re: Expectant management over Christmas

And thank you Karen. X Dear Lolly2481, I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy and loss, When we experience ectopic pregnancy we are suddenly faced with a life threatening emergency and it's treatment, reduction in fertility, concerns about the future and the loss of our babies. Experiencing...
by lolly2481
Sun Dec 27, 2020 3:50 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Expectant management over Christmas
Replies: 24
Views: 9017

Re: Expectant management over Christmas

Thanks Stephy..been had my bloods taken. Took two attempts as I have bad veins :? Results will be tomorrow. How are you doing today?
by lolly2481
Sat Dec 26, 2020 1:30 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Expectant management over Christmas
Replies: 24
Views: 9017

Re: Expectant management over Christmas

Thank you Stephy. Hope you are doing well, resting up and getting through the physical healing. We are about to go for a walk although I feel very tired. It's easy to start worrying that the tiredness is a sign of internal bleeding or something but I'm sure it's just because it's emotionally drainin...
by lolly2481
Fri Dec 25, 2020 9:14 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Expectant management over Christmas
Replies: 24
Views: 9017

Re: Expectant management over Christmas

Made it through today mostly in one piece. A thoughtful gift from my husband along with a touching note attached about how 'we are in this together' dissolved me into floods of tears. But the end of today brings me one day closer to Sunday- the next hospital visit :? Hoping for a decent drop in hCG ...
by lolly2481
Fri Dec 25, 2020 10:34 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Boyfriend cheated on me during and after my ectopic
Replies: 4
Views: 1628

Re: Boyfriend cheated on me during and after my ectopic

Hi Ellis, I'm sorry that you have had to deal with your ectopic pregnancy and the emotional aftermath by yourself. Your ex sounds dreadful in the way he has treated you during the difficult time. Sending you love x
by lolly2481
Thu Dec 24, 2020 6:50 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Expectant management over Christmas
Replies: 24
Views: 9017

Re: Expectant management over Christmas

Thank you Kelly x sending love to anyone that needs it. This is honestly a rubbish sucky thing to happen to anyone at any time (keep my language PG rating) but it seems just a little bit worse at christmas time when you feel pressure to put on a brave face. Uurgh sending hugs. I'll check in tomorrow...
by lolly2481
Thu Dec 24, 2020 5:48 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Any help or advice appreciated x
Replies: 21
Views: 7744

Re: Any help or advice appreciated x

I'm sorry to hear this.. I wish it had been better news. Sending you love x
by lolly2481
Thu Dec 24, 2020 3:05 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Expectant management over Christmas
Replies: 24
Views: 9017

Re: Expectant management over Christmas

Thanks Stephy. Will be thinking of you too
by lolly2481
Thu Dec 24, 2020 11:37 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Any help or advice appreciated x
Replies: 21
Views: 7744

Re: Any help or advice appreciated x

I hope that your scan today goes well. X
by lolly2481
Wed Dec 23, 2020 9:30 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Expectant management over Christmas
Replies: 24
Views: 9017

Expectant management over Christmas

Hi. 2 weeks ago today my husband and i found out that I had an ectopic pregnancy. This was our first try for a baby. We went from being excited to devastated (me) and disappointed (him) I am lucky (?! :? ) as it appears that my body was already rejecting the pregnancy by itself. It is on my left ova...