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Possibly pregnant at 44, worried ectopic
Possibly pregnant at 44, worried ectopic
Fast forward to 2017 and not taking any kind of precautions to not get pregnant, I skip my first period in 12 years. I am currently on cycle day 39. My normal cycle is 23-26 days. They had been getting shorter the last few months, I assume I am getting near the change. But I have never missed a period but 2 times in the past, when I was pregnant with my daughter (b.1991) and then the ectopic in 2004. I have taken 4 pregnancy tests in the past week and not even a faint line. I called my gyn and his nurse told me to call her in 2 weeks and if I hadn't started by then or I get a positive test she would order a blood test. I know I am high risk for another ectopic. I have just been hoping all this time I would have a chance to share a child with my husband. He has had no children of his own and I just know it would be the prettiest red headed child ever. Every month for 12 years had been the biggest let down.
Could the fact that it is a ectopic be the reason I have yet to have a positive? I know that the hormones are slow to grow in this case.
When I was pregnant with the last ectopic it did show a positive right away. My body is so confusing me right now. I still have about 8 days before I can contact the doctor back.
I have no signs of pregnancy, no sensitive breasts and such. I do have some cramping but it is slight and just feels like you would feel before you do start, but I haven't.
Now after all this time as bad as I wanted to get pregnant, I am scared to death I am because I am 44... I crack myself up sometimes, we have the strangest things happen to us always.
Thanks for any input, I appreciate it.
jodie
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Re: Possibly pregnant at 44, worried ectopic
I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy and loss,
Periods can be delayed for a number of reasons including stress or even (as surprising as it may sound) excessive exercise or weight loss. Doctors normally consider menstrual cycles of between 23-42 days to be within normal parameters. I would say preg test not necessarily show as positive. You have already done the right thing and sought medical advice and while I do not want to alarm you, if you experience any pain or unusual bleeding, please do get medical attention as soon as you can.
Sending much love and positive thoughts,
Karen x
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