I’m now home 24 hrs after my 5 day stay in hospital post surgery.
I can feel myself freaking out. I don’t know what’s normal in recovery should I be bleeding should I not be. How much is ok. What should it look like. I’m scared to Google these as the idea that somethings wrong and I’d be brought back there is terrifying me
The pain from the surgery I can deal with, it’s not nice but it won’t kill me. Cramps and bleeding have started and that kind of pain I just can’t cope with.
The road ahead just seems too long to bare and I don’t think I have it in me to travel it.
I’m sore and broken and empty. I’m scared I’m damaged I’m traumatised
I feel like this may shake me and cause irreparable mental damage. I struggle enough already with my anxiety I’m so susceptible to causing more damage
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I’m home...now what?
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Re: I’m home...now what?
I thought I was cracking up having also suffered anxiety in the past. You’re not. Just get through today. I believe heavy bleeding is considered filling a pad within 2 hours. If you reach that level, seek medical advice.
Hot water bottle + try and eat something, Netflix and relax for you. Your brain and body will heal but it feels like it never will I know x
Hot water bottle + try and eat something, Netflix and relax for you. Your brain and body will heal but it feels like it never will I know x
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Re: I’m home...now what?
Dear Mimidubois,
I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy and loss,
Experiencing an ectopic pregnancy is a huge ordeal and you are in the early stages of recovery. Your body needs time to heal from your surgery which is in itself a gruelling task. You have also had to process the loss of your baby and been through an immense rollercoaster of emotions - all of this will take time to come to terms with.
It is important to remember that we will all experience things differently, so whilst it is really useful getting information on what to expect generally, try not to compare yourself to others. With regards to bleeding, the first bleed that occurs after treatment for ectopic pregnancy is not classed as a period. It is the body's response to falling hormone levels because you are sadly no longer pregnant. The body expels the lining of the uterus that had built up in preparation for the pregnancy because it is no longer needed. This process involves vaginal bleeding - it can be clotty or like one of your usual periods and some women have bleeding/spotting for up to six weeks.
In general, you should take it very easily for about six weeks after surgery. Your body will be using its energies to heal internally. It is normal to feel physically and emotionally exhausted during this time and please do be kind to yourself. Recovery can take time and some days will be better than others, one day you maybe ok and the next you maybe in discomfort or more emotional. This is perfectly usual and the healing process will go back and forth in this way for however long you need. It is important to listen to your body's signals and pain and feeling tired are your body's signs to tell you to rest. We suggest keeping a healthy balanced diet, drinking lots of water and resting. Once your wounds have healed, very gentle exercise such as a short walk can help, but please do take this slowly.
These forums are a safe place to ask questions or even vent and will all be here for you for as long as you need,
Sending much love,
Karen x
The Ectopic Pregnancy Trust
Registered Charity Number: 1071811
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I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy and loss,
Experiencing an ectopic pregnancy is a huge ordeal and you are in the early stages of recovery. Your body needs time to heal from your surgery which is in itself a gruelling task. You have also had to process the loss of your baby and been through an immense rollercoaster of emotions - all of this will take time to come to terms with.
It is important to remember that we will all experience things differently, so whilst it is really useful getting information on what to expect generally, try not to compare yourself to others. With regards to bleeding, the first bleed that occurs after treatment for ectopic pregnancy is not classed as a period. It is the body's response to falling hormone levels because you are sadly no longer pregnant. The body expels the lining of the uterus that had built up in preparation for the pregnancy because it is no longer needed. This process involves vaginal bleeding - it can be clotty or like one of your usual periods and some women have bleeding/spotting for up to six weeks.
In general, you should take it very easily for about six weeks after surgery. Your body will be using its energies to heal internally. It is normal to feel physically and emotionally exhausted during this time and please do be kind to yourself. Recovery can take time and some days will be better than others, one day you maybe ok and the next you maybe in discomfort or more emotional. This is perfectly usual and the healing process will go back and forth in this way for however long you need. It is important to listen to your body's signals and pain and feeling tired are your body's signs to tell you to rest. We suggest keeping a healthy balanced diet, drinking lots of water and resting. Once your wounds have healed, very gentle exercise such as a short walk can help, but please do take this slowly.
These forums are a safe place to ask questions or even vent and will all be here for you for as long as you need,
Sending much love,
Karen x
The Ectopic Pregnancy Trust
Registered Charity Number: 1071811
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If we have been able to help you, are you able to help us with a small donation or by volunteering?
Further information is available at ectopic.org.uk
Email us: ept@ectopic.org.uk
We provide a call-back helpline service: 020 7733 2653
The latest EPT newsletter is out now! You can take a look at the Winter edition and subscribe to our mailing list here: https://mailchi.mp/986bdd6091ee/ectopic-matters
Detailed medical information can be found on our website. Please remember online medical information is NO SUBSTITUTE for expert medical advice from your own health care team
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