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Getting back to normal
Getting back to normal
I'm not really coping too well. I went to the doctors on the 6th Feb after having a week and a half of bleeding. The first 4 days I just thought was a normal period and had pretty much stopped all day then I sneezed of all things and the bleeding started again hence going to the doctors after it didn't stop. I was told I was pregnant and they thought I was miscarrying so was sent to my local EPU who confirmed this, but had blood tests to check my hormone levels were dropping... well they increased so was booked in for a second scan on 12th Feb. There they confirmed it was actually ectopic. So I was in hospital all day and had the injections. Day 4 went back for my blood tests and it doubled and now my day 7 blood test shown my levels have dropped to less than when I went to the doctors.
Anyway, ive been signed off work for 2 weeks and been told to take it easy but now my levels have come down I can start doing a little bit more. But I don't know when to go back to work as i can't afford to be losing lots of money and I just want to get back to normal. Physically I'm feeling better but am still bleeding and the pain comes and goes and still feeling quite tired, but emotionally I'm up and down like a rollercoaster. My partner wants me to go back this weekend like I was planning but my work have said I'm not in now until next Thursday. I just don't know what to do, I'm all over the place.
The pregnancy wasn't planned so came as a shock, but I've been broody after my nephew was born a few months back and we didn't have any protection in place as we decided when it's time it will happen. So obviously I'm heartbroken after coming to terms with the fact I'd lost the baby after being told I miscarried to actually no you haven't and having to get rid of it to save me essentially.
Just after any advice on being able to get back to normal and back to work (I work in a dog only pet shop so there's lots of dogs being lifted into baths and big bags of dog food etc to be carried, so obviously I am worrying a little as I'm only a week into the treatment)
Thanks.
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Re: Getting back to normal
You doctor can adjust the fitnote to recommended reasonable adjustments. Your job doesn’t HAVE to accept them but hopefully they’ll be flexible
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If you do go back though, just really be careful with lifting xx
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He's now said I should call the number I've got for the hospital but I'm due to go in on Tuesday anyway so hoping the pain and bleeding will settle again as I know the bleeding for me especially gets heavier then goes really light again, but I don't know what to do now
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If your pain is not controlled by over the counter meds (when you get them), or if you fill a pad in 2 hours, do seek help bc there is a chance of rupture if you let hcg isn’t clear.
Hope you get more comfortable soon X
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I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy and loss,
A lot of women are shocked by how exhausted they feel following methotrexate injection, including myself. It can be physically and emotionally draining.
I am afraid it is difficult to predict how long it will take for your hormone levels reach non-pregnant levels. As we are all individual, our bodies respond differently to the drug and it depends on factors like how high levels reached and our unique physiology. What I can say is that it can take a number of weeks and, while it can take some time, it is not as invasive a procedure as surgery. Also, in terms of chances of future successful pregnancies, studies do not show a significant difference between treatment routes, whether surgical, medical using methotrexate or expectant management (allowing time for the body to resolve the pregnancy itself).
While I appreciate that feeling of wanting to "get back to normal", you have done exactly the right thing in asking about going back to work at such a delicate time. With experiencing an ectopic pregnancy, your body is going through a challenging ordeal and it is important to take things easily during your treatment.
If you are being treated with a drug called methotrexate, please do not undertake any strenuous exercise or lifting or housework while your hCG levels are dropping. While I do not want to alarm you, there remains the risk of rupture even with low or declining hCG levels. So you may require further time off work or, if possible ask if a colleague can complete the heavy lifting for you. If you develop any worsening pain or bleeding whilst your levels are declining, please contact your EPU or A&E to discuss your symptoms.
As a gentle reminder regarding TTC following methotrexate, you should wait until your hCG levels have fallen to below 5mIU/mL (your doctor will advise you when this is through blood tests) and then take a folic acid supplement for 12 weeks before you try to conceive. This is because the Methotrexate may have reduced the level of folate in your body which is needed to ensure a baby develops healthily. The Methotrexate is metabolised quickly but it can affect the quality of your cells, including those of your eggs and the quality of your blood for up to three months after it has been given. The medicine can also affect the way your liver works and so you need to give your body time to recover properly before a new pregnancy is considered. A shortage of folate could result in a greater chance of a baby having a neural tube defect such as hare lip, cleft palate, or even spina bifida or other NT defects. This is why the "wait" and then taking folic acid for 12 weeks before trying to conceive is so important.
Above all, be kind to yourself and allow time to grieve, to heal both physically and emotionally.
Sending much love,
Karen x
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