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Stressing and need help (long story)
Stressing and need help (long story)
Right now, I’m home with my daughter and I’m getting a cramp on my left side. Idk if I’m just ovulating (which I thought was happening a week ago.) I don’t want to keep calling my OB because I feel like I’m annoying them. Please help me!
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Re: Stressing and need help (long story)
I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy and loss. You have been through a huge amount in such a short space of time and it is very normal to feel overwhelmed. From your words, I can imagine how frightening the experience must have been and I am sorry you have had to go though this.
Experiencing an ectopic pregnancy is a huge ordeal and you are in the early stages of recovery. Your body needs time to heal from your surgery which is in itself a gruelling task. You have also had to process the loss of your baby and been through an immense rollercoaster of emotions - all of this will take time to come to terms with.
You should take it very easily for about six weeks after surgery. Your body will be using its energies to heal internally. It is normal to feel physically and emotionally exhausted during this time and please do be kind to yourself. Recovery can take time and some days will be better than others, one day you maybe ok and the next you maybe in discomfort or more emotional. This is perfectly usual and the healing process will go back and forth in this way for however long you need. It is important to listen to your body's signals and pain and feeling tired are your body's signs to tell you to rest. We suggest keeping a healthy balanced diet, drinking lots of water and resting. Once your wounds have healed, very gentle exercise such as a short walk can help, but please do take this slowly.
Having said this however, I am not medically trained and would always advise speaking to your Dr with any concerns. You are not bugging them. You know your body best and if something doesn't feel right or your symptoms aren't getting better or going away, you do need to speak to them.
Above all be kind to yourself and allow time to grieve, to heal both physically and emotionally. We will be here for you for as long as you need,
Sending much love,
Karen x
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Re: Stressing and need help (long story)
What a frightening experience for you. Don’t feel like you are wasting anyone’s time. This is their job and I’m sure they care about all their patients equally. Above all, considering you had a blood transfusion on your last visit, I think you’re entitled to make sure you’re ok to say the least!
If it helps, I often call the gynaecologist to ask questions regarding any pain I have, and by no means was it as serious as you. I’ve never had anyone tell me that I’m wasting their time or made me feel that way. PULs or EP are serious and should therefore be taken seriously.
Take care of yourself and try not to worry. Call them to put your mind at rest at any time.
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