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How these forums can help you to heal

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Leasha
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Re: How these forums can help you to heal

Post by Leasha »

Hi
First time posting I am so happy that there are people that can understand how it feels.
i feel so alone and depressed sometimes I am even scared of having another baby. I just sit and cry and I don't want my significant other to see me crying because it's hard on him too but I just feel like I need to talk I've got so many questions.

Egyptra
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Re: How these forums can help you to heal

Post by Egyptra »

Hi,
I am new to the forum.

BettyRom2016
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Re: How these forums can help you to heal

Post by BettyRom2016 »

Hi I was just diagnosed with Ectopic pregnancy a couple of days ago. After we had a miscarriage last year and we have been trying for a baby for almost 2 years. I was shocked.
My Bhcg is falling so they have decided to wait and see If I need any surgical or medical intervention. Im still under close observation blood test and scan every 48 hours. My question is How long should we wait to try again conceiving and how long its normal to feel abdominal pain and bleeding if we I didnt have any medical or surgical treatment?
Many thanks if someone can answer to my questions.
Betty

Sdp1982
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Re: How these forums can help you to heal

Post by Sdp1982 »

I have recently suffered my 2nd ectopic 5weeks ago. It’s been extremely difficult as it took 7years to finally fall pregnant again since the last time and we’ve been trying for over 10yrs in total! I’ve been experiencing some sharp pains which feel exactly the same as my 1st ectopic on the side where my damaged tube has now been removed. I know my period is due to start and quite honestly I’m dreading seeing blood again as this is the reminder of what i no longer have.
I had a traumatic experience again however this one was more serious and I’m lucky to be here.
I’m physically getting better now after an infection but emotional have a long way to go. My work plan to do a home visit which I’m not happy with and scared about as I know I’ll break down. I feel they think I should be back to work now but I honestly don’t feel ready to face them.
This is devestaing for any of us to experience but I feel worse this time due to the overall time we have been trying to conceive and this felt like a miracle. I was so excited and then have had my heart ripped away, again!
I guess I’d like to know how long it has taken for others to get back to work and if I am being silly taking so long (5weeks since my operation) to get back when I still dont feel anywhere near ready to return especially when there are colleagues I know well who are pregnant. I don’t feel I can face seeing all those baby belly’s and everyone wanting to feel the kicks when I will no longer be a part of that :cry:

Laura2468
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Re: How these forums can help you to heal

Post by Laura2468 »

Annie12+ wrote:Hi,
I'm new to this so please forgive me if I ask silly questions or go on a bit... :lol:
I need some positive thoughts back in my life. I've had 4 pregnancies in the last 16 months none of which have been successful, my last one was only 6 weeks ago which turned out to be Ectpoic. I went in for an early scan and myself and my husband were told the bad news. I was kept in hospital to go for surgery to remove the pregnancy and they also had to remove my right tube as well.
6 weeks on and I'm now feeling lower than ever.... I'm hoping someone can relate to this and advise me on what to do. I'm so scared that I'm going to have another pregnancy fail again. We both really want a family to love and share our lives with.
Thanks xx

siyavarma
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Re: How these forums can help you to heal

Post by siyavarma »

Thanks for this post.keep posting :)


tanvi579
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Post by tanvi579 »

Such forums certainly are extremely helpful,as you can speak your heart out.

alamal1
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Post by alamal1 »

I'm hoping someone can relate to this and advise me on what to do. I'm so scared that I'm going to have another pregnancy fail again.
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alamassaat01
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Post by alamassaat01 »

I was kept in hospital to go for surgery to remove the pregnancy and they also had to remove my right tube as well.
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LindseyK87
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Joined: Thu Sep 05, 2019 7:53 pm

Re: How these forums can help you to heal

Post by LindseyK87 »

Hi all. I am new to this site after having 2 ectopic pregnancies in a very short space of time and I am wondering if anyone else has had 2 so close together and in the future gone on to have a healthy pregnancy?

Malusarekomal
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Re: How these forums can help you to heal

Post by Malusarekomal »

Excellent thread! Thank you!

SBenn123
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Re: How these forums can help you to heal

Post by SBenn123 »

Hello,

I'm just found this site and joined. I had an ectopic pregnancy 4 weeks ago and I feel as though I'm just finally feeling all the negative emotions that go along with it. I thought I was fine but the past couple days I've been consumed with anxiety and depression and cry a lot. I was only 5 weeks pregnant and although terrifying the surgery went well even though they had to remove my left tube. Is it normal to feel this way 4 weeks after the procedure and will these horrible feelings go away?

Ann24
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Joined: Fri Jun 26, 2020 11:56 pm

Re: How these forums can help you to heal

Post by Ann24 »

Hi
It's been 2weeks now since I had my ectopic pregnancy surgery. Each day is different, the physical pain is better now it's my emotions am struggling with and my body reacting to these. I do by all means not to be alone always in the company of my family, at first it helped but now everytime am with them or anyone I just keep zoning out. And everytime am in my room ,the silence of my room somehow becomes too unbearable, I have to always play some music or play games just to keep my mind busy..I can't just sit and do nothing. It's like I have to keep my mind occupied not to think about what happened. Another problem am having..am struggling to sleep,sometimes i don't sleep at all and when i do get to sleep i keep waking up and I can't sleep on one side for too long it's frustrating.


venkysiva
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Re: How these forums can help you to heal

Post by venkysiva »

Thanks for sharing this info, keep posting

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