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Struggling with two ectopics
Struggling with two ectopics
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Re: Struggling with two ectopics
My heart goes out to you for what you are going through. I am so very sorry you are having to experience an ectopic pregnancy and loss again. As you said, it is so very recent, and it is completely normal to being feeling the emotions you are. The loss is both a physical and emotional trauma, and each recovery is so very unique.
It's incredibly important to look after yourself right now. I know that as a mum that can be difficult. There is no right way to grieve and we each find it in our own way. Even though we may have not wanted a another child, it is hard when we see the choice is taken away from us, and it is normal to grieve the loss of that choice as well.
I found that journalling helped me to capture the range of thoughts and emotions I was having after my two ectopic pregnancies. It also helped me to organize my thoughts to share with my partner, friends and family. It can be difficult for others to how what to say or how the experience feels, if they have not been through it. It was hard for me to figure out how to share what I was feeling.
We are here for you. These boards are a safe space to share, ask questions, or to vent. They are filled with people who have been through similar experiences and journeys, and we are here for you for as long as you need.
Please take time for yourself.
With good wishes,
Michele
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