By registering on our forum, you can view and contribute to more topics on ectopic pregnancy. Your details are confidential and we do not send unsolicited emails. For your confidentiality, you can choose your own forum name to protect your anonymity if you so wish. If you register, there is no obligation to post; you can simply take comfort from the words of others. It is entirely up to you whether you post a message or read others' experiences or do both.

Baby after two ectopics and miscarriage

This is a welcoming place for you to ask your questions and share your knowledge and experiences of ectopic pregnancy.
To keep this as a safe space, before being able to post freely, an administrator will need to activate your account and authorise your first post.
Forum rules
Post Reply
Bdetimc
Posts: 5
Joined: Fri Oct 29, 2021 5:36 am

Baby after two ectopics and miscarriage

Post by Bdetimc »

This forum helped me tremendously through those darkest days so I decided to come back and share a positive story. My six week old baby girl sleeps soundly next to me. There is hope after all so please don’t give up.

I had two ectopics in 2021, first ruptured resulting in me losing the left tube, second was cornual, methotrexate didn’t work and I had to have surgical removal again. I had never heard of ectopic pregnancies and suddenly to have two in a row - I had never even had surgery in my life. It was extremely traumatic. I remember shedding so many tears day after day and feeling so depressed like nothing good will ever happen to me again.

In 2022 after waiting for the methotrexate to exit my body I was pregnant again. When I found out at 7 weeks that it wasn’t going to develop normally I felt almost numb, like if you don’t expect anything you won’t be disappointed. I had a D&C.

I was lucky to fall pregnant again and this time after a wonderful nine months my perfect baby daughter is here. I still can’t believe I made her she is so sweet. Miracle does happen and I am forever grateful.
Top
EPT Host 20
Posts: 3176
Joined: Thu May 31, 2012 10:58 pm

Re: Baby after two ectopics and miscarriage

Post by EPT Host 20 »

Dear Bdetimc,
Thank you so much for taking the time to share your story.
You will know yourself how isolating ectopic pregnancy loss feels, especially when you experience multiple losses. Your experience and words really will help others.
Give your little daughter an extra cuddle from us at the Trust.
Sending much love,
Karen x

The Ectopic Pregnancy Trust
Registered Charity Number: 1071811
The EPT is awarded the PIF TICK as a Trusted Information Creator, the UK-wide quality mark for healthcare information
*************************************************************************
If the information provided here or through the EPT website has helped you, you can donate towards our support services, volunteer, or fundraise to raise awareness.
Further information is available on our website.
Email us: ept@ectopic.org.uk
We provide a call-back support line: 020 7733 2653. We are able to provide support in multiple languages including British Sign Language.
Take a look at our newsletters and subscribe to our mailing list.
Detailed medical information can be found on our website. Please remember online medical information is NO SUBSTITUTE for expert medical advice from your own health care team
*************************************************************************
Top
Post Reply

Return to “Main Board”